I’ve been writing a lot about the benefits of watching porn together with your partner. But I have never discussed why and how to watch porn with a partner until now, so let’s do that today.
Why it gives a positive effect
The most important reason is communication. Watching porn can be an incredibly intimate act for couples who are able to communicate well each other. It gives them access to different worlds which they normally don’t get as much in real life. You’ll see things you would not only enjoy but also feel deep emotional connection with people you wouldn’t meet otherwise. The fact that there isn’t any physical contact between two partners makes it easier than ever before to open up especially when both of you aren’t used to talking about such sensitive issues. Talking during sex helps immensely too. If you’re like me then you might find this kind of intimacy quite overwhelming at times. There’s nothing wrong if you want to talk or just listen while having fun together. This will help you connect emotionally and build deeper relationship with one another.
How to access live sex
Watching porn together means being physically close enough to touch each other without actually doing anything except enjoying what you see on screen. Many men tend to stay away from their women because of past sexual experiences where they were hurt by sexual abuse (physical/emotional). For many years after these incidents happened my husband was afraid to even hug his wife. He wasn’t sure whether she’d react negatively again. Couples should join online webcam chat room of experienced couples and have a nice private chat session. Also you can watch how they have live sex and increase know-how of sex in a ways that no other person could teach. It’s good that you don’t know each other. It’s all done over internet using live video stream. If you are totally newbie in the field than check the best sites offering live sex as they have all kinds of sex cam sites that will fulfill every taste. Now, after the session, he doesn’t care anymore and happily embraces her whenever he wants. We haven’t had problems since we started watching porn together. My point here is that once you overcome those fears you won’t need to worry anymore about what happens next. Your body will take over and make all decisions for itself based on pleasure signals coming from brainstem.
When it’s good to watch porn?
There are no hard rules here. Some couples prefer spending time alone together rather than sharing it with someone else. As long as both parties understand that they’re free to share it however they wish, the decision should be left to personal preference. Personally I believe the best thing is to spend some quality time together every day to keep our relationship fresh and alive. Having said that, sometimes it might seem difficult to arrange due to work commitments etc., so maybe try finding some spare minutes to watch something together once or twice week. You could pick movie titles beforehand and plan ahead instead of scrambling through Netflix at random – it’s more efficient and saves time.
Place yourselves in a comfortable private place
If privacy is a concern either choose private place or go somewhere public. Anywhere you feel comfortable with. Or better yet rent a hotel room!
Things to avoid at all cost
Don’t expect your significant other to perform exactly like in porn video(s) unless you pay very good actors. Just relax and enjoy yourself. Also remember that everything takes longer in movies than in reality. Take your time to warm up and really savor the moment. That way you’ll experience true bliss. Don’t rush into things. Go slow and easy. If you’re new to this activity consider reading books first, watching online videos or going out with friends. Learn everything you can about arousal techniques and masturbation skills. Most importantly… practice safe sex. If you don’t know how to properly handle condoms, use a condom demonstration site. Make sure you learn how to put condom correctly onto penis. Practice putting condom back off afterwards. Have fun practicing together!
What to look forward to?
It’s pretty obvious that feeling aroused together creates amazing feelings. Emotions come out unexpectedly that may result in spontaneous orgasm. Sharing emotions with your partner is extremely rewarding. In case you didn’t notice, emotions play big role in human behavior. They determine how we perceive ourselves and others around us. Being touched while experiencing strong passion increases oxytocin levels in blood stream. Oxytocin is known as “the love hormone” and has calming effect on mind and body. Sexually aroused couple feels closer together thus forming stronger bond. Their heart rate slows down and breathing becomes slower. Blood flow rises to genitals causing increased sensitivity resulting in orgasms. Afterwards both of you will feel relaxed and contented. So happy ending indeed!
Conclusion
Pornography is great source of enjoyment for married couples. There are lots of ways to spice up bedroom sessions and improve overall satisfaction level. By using porn wisely and understanding its basic principles we can turn it into healthy part of our marriage.